Teenage Tunnel Vision

People say that the youth is wasted on the young. They say that we will grow up and look back at this time and miss it terribly. Some say that their time in high school was the best time of their lives.
I say... That is a load of bullshit.

Quick disclaimer, this post is again, very generalized, and one perspective on things, so if you can relate... Awesome! If not? That's cool too, I hope you can respect my opinion as I do yours.

1. Listen to your elders
I'm not just talking about your parents, who despite their over-baring nature, do want the best for you.. Blah blah blah... But seriously, there are so many people who have more knowledge and wisdom then you do. I know how hard it is to admit that you are wrong, or listen to others who clearly know better then you do. However, you are making life so much easier for yourself but just biting the bullet and taking the advice because it can really help you to grow. You might even learn something useful, and even if you don't there is no harm in sitting down and listening to a different perspective. Open your mind and accept others.

2. Self-Worth
I've talked a lot about, never settling, putting your feelings first sometimes, protecting your glass heart and making good decisions for you. This all comes under the big umbrella of self worth. Too many people have trouble with their self-esteem and it sucks. When you can love yourself, you can open yourself to loving others and they can open themselves up to loving you too. I can't tell you how to love yourself... And whatever issues and problems you find yourself caught up in, it's important to honest about it. Honest to yourself and honest to others. That is probably the hardest part, so when you master that... You can really help yourself. Believe in yourself.

3. Breathe
Don't let yourself stress too much. Some stress can be helpful in motivating you but don't let it take over your life. I'm one of those people that can't cope with stress. It's a massive cycle and it has taken me to some bad places. The trick is to keep it controlled. Get into some good habits, and let them slowly drown out your bad ones. (Are you stressed?). Be kind to yourself.

4. Friendship
Keep your friends close. Treat them the way you want to be treated. Appreciate people that matter and let go of those who don't appreciate you. Make new friends as often as possible, don't leave anyone behind. Don't underestimate the power of friendship... Be as outgoing as you can manage and be yourself around everyone that you can. Don't let people bring you down, you're you without them and you can be you with them around too. The right people can help you to be a better you, the you, you were meant to be. The people that know you right to your bones, are the people you should care about. The people that love you for who you are. Let people in.

5. Tunnel Vision
Don't forget about the bigger picture. It get's better... Look around you, enjoy the small things. Like drinking coffee that has too much sugar in it, getting a kiss on the cheek, sitting down in the shower, walking around town at night... These little things can have to power to make you really happy if you let them. Also remember that, high school isn't forever... It's going to be over soon, try and enjoy yourself now, and always. There are always going to be things that impact you. How they impact you is your decision.

Goodluck everyone
-We are Golden